It’s comical how people will bite off more than they can chew yet blame everything and everyone else for the fact that they are struggling to cope. The same applies to relationships where everyone is looking for someone who has their shit together while many of these same people remain blind to the fact that their shit is constantly falling apart. You don’t ask for a woman who is established, stable, smart and beautiful to settle for broken promises, little ambition, no effort and weak ass attempts at romance. You don’t expect to have a man who is honest, respectful, intelligent and forward-thinking to be happy with a woman who will always start but never finish stuff, never plan for the future and is more interested in her wardrobe than she is about any relationship. To expect much yet give little is genuinely punching above your belt. You either drop to a person’s level or make it that they rise to yours. We all operate on different mental and spiritual wavelenghts as we go through life. So I guess the key is in finding someone who is vibing on the same frequency when it comes to matters of the heart and mind.
“Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure……..” Marianne Williamson
Too many of us do not go beyond the benchmark of ‘having potential’. Truth is, we can possess all the potential and embody all the promises of success but it is up to us to translate that potential into full self-actualization. It is up to us to translate that raw passion into pure power. Some believe that the biggest crime is not knowing love. I believe that the biggest loss is not knowing what you could have become.
You know what I mean. You’ve had that feeling before. You get up first thing in the morning questioning everything in your life and wonder if what you did was the right decision. You get caught up in a wave of daydreaming and start entertaining thoughts of ‘What if?’ You observe other people and consider ‘That could be me right now if things stayed the same’. You look at the uncertainty that lies ahead and yearn to go back to what you used to know even though it was less than what you deserved. Well I’m here to tell you that your heart is often deceptive when your mind is at its clearest. Remember how you felt, understand why it HAD to happen and have the patience to see life unravel something better for you.