Do not ignore the fundamentals of right and wrong for love nor money. At the core of us all are things that are non-negotiable and that we can’t bring ourselves to give up or relinquish because it’s part of what makes us human, good and whole. To ignore all of that, for the sake of things and people, will lead to a dead end because it inevitably bites us back in the butt and makes us feel even worse for knowing better in the first place.
Need I comment further? You won’t need to let him know that you’re hurting, he will feel it. You won’t need to prompt him to do little love gestures for you, it will come naturally. You won’t have to argue with him to care, that will be second nature. You won’t have to beg him to not hurt you – he will know better. Love will not need to give an account for whether or not it’s there. It will speak for itself through the way your partner treats you.
There is no problem in loving others, just so long as you don’t love them at the expense of yourself, at the expense of your happiness and at the expense of your peace of mind. In life, the key to enjoyment and fulfilment is balance. No true love will ever require you to go against what you know is right and it will certainly not accept that you be less than yourself. Make the love you have for yourself be the benchmark for the kind of love you wish to receive from others. True love starts from you. What you accept for yourself is what you will attract from others.
Have you realised that doors have started to open ever since you split with your ex? That the windows of opportunity and the wonders of life have started to reveal themselves to you in ways you never witnessed before? Have you noticed that you are beginning to regain your glow, recover your inner strength, recapture your youth and connect with yourself on a level that can only spell trouble for that ex if he should ever come back to your life? Have you noticed that you’ve changed and it is just……………….wonderful! Welcome to the world of freedom my brothers and sisters. You have been set free from the clutches of disappointments, broken promises, mediocrity and settling for less. If you stay in our programme long enough, we guarantee that at the end, you will discover the love that you truly deserve. In your starter pack, you will notice a free guide for not looking back and a free passageway for moving forward. Your enrolment begins today!
A lot of us believe the movies and stories that we read about true love never dying. Even when unfairly torn apart, separated by time and distance, lovers who are truly in love always find their way back to each other. I love the idea of this, just like anyone else, but the reality of our lives is that the love will last so long as the illusion of having a wonderful partner endures or so long as the willingness, of both partners, to try and make the effort remains. However, regardless of how strong and compelling the feelings of love are in the beginning – disrespect, pride and ego will always sabotage your ‘happy ever after’.